39 Traits of Likable People – Are You Breaking any of these Rules?

by | Nov 21, 2016 | Leadership

Traits of likable people

These will probably not surprise you at all. But if some of these catch your attention, you may have a little work to do… Don’t worry, we ALL do!

Here they are:

  1. They actively listen
  2. They make a great first impression
  3. They’re accountable for their mistakes
  4. They do what they say they’ll do
  5. They treat everyone with respect
  6. They ask questions instead of making assumptions
  7. They laugh
  8. They live their own life – not one that is held hostage by the opinions of others
  9. They follow-up
  10. They smile
  11. They remember your name
  12. They offer to help
  13. They aren’t afraid to make mistakes
  14. They send Thank You notes
  15. They encourage others
  16. They speak slowly and confidently
  17. They don’t judge you
  18. They apologize
  19. The forgive and don’t keep score
  20. They don’t speak for you
  21. They know how to give a compliment
  22. They know how to receive a compliment
  23. They tell the truth
  24. They celebrate others
  25. They have good body language
  26. They don’t criticize others
  27. They give you their undivided attention
  28. They don’t make you feel defensive
  29. They don’t take credit for other people’s successes
  30. They maintain good eye contact
  31. They let you do most of the talking
  32. They know how to have a tough conversation
  33. They admit when they are wrong
  34. They are consistent
  35. They don’t interrupt
  36. They are not afraid to be vulnerable
  37. They don’t exaggerate
  38. They can laugh at themselves
  39. They are optimistic without being unrealistic

Take notice that these behaviors are not tricks or tactics. They are genuine, admirable traits that breathe life into relationships. Think of some more? Comment below – We would be happy to add them to the list!