39 Traits of Likable People – Are You Breaking any of these Rules?

These will probably not surprise you at all. But if some of these catch your attention, you may have a little work to do… Don’t worry, we ALL do!

Here they are:

1. They actively listen
2. They make a great first impression
3. They’re accountable for their mistakes
4. They do what they say they’ll do
5. They treat everyone with respect
6. They ask questions instead of making assumptions
7. They laugh
8. They live their own life – not one that is held hostage by the opinions of others
9. They follow-up
10. They smile
11. They remember your name
12. They offer to help
13. They aren’t afraid to make mistakes
14. They send Thank You notes
15. They encourage others
16. They speak slowly and confidently
17. They don’t judge you
18. They apologize
19. The forgive and don’t keep score
20. They don’t speak for you
21. They know how to give a compliment
22. They know how to receive a compliment
23. They tell the truth
24. They celebrate others
25. They have good body language
26. They don’t criticize others
27. They give you their undivided attention
28. They don’t make you feel defensive
29. They don’t take credit for other people’s successes
30. They maintain good eye contact
31. They let you do most of the talking
32. They know how to have a tough conversation
33. They admit when they are wrong
34. They are consistent
35. They don’t interrupt
36. They are not afraid to be vulnerable
37. They don’t exaggerate
38. They can laugh at themselves
39. They are optimistic without being unrealistic

Take notice that these behaviors are not tricks or tactics. They are genuine, admirable traits that breathe life into relationships. Think of some more? Comment below – We would be happy to add them to the list!